To this reflection I did not get by myself, like almost all things in my evolution as Intensivist. I learned it from my patients and their families. I was taught this when after a long admission to ICU and full of complications, to the discharge I received a card stating “… Thank you doctor, we have seen emerge From you tears that heal…”
It is overwhelming at that time the weight of the responsibility, you have to look at the eyes with an infinite sincerity, feeling their tears, hear the silent cries drowning in their paralyzed gorges, which cut almost the breath… You share their suffering, and in that terrible moment, they put in your hands their most precious treasure: the life of a loved one.
Could a greater act of trust in another human being exist? … I think it deserves a few tears.
I’d love to continue sharing with you these little stories of moments and experiences of intensive medicine, and although I’m Maria, from now on, if you think well, you can call me… The crying intensivist.
Intensive Care Physician.
Hospital Comarcal Infanta Margarita, Cordoba.